Archive for the 'sex-positive' Category

Every so often, I receive an email through the albertatrans website feedback form that challenges me with something I hadn’t thought of before.  Recently, a query came in from a cisgender male who thought that I might be a good person to ask about finding a surgeon willing to do an “enhancement phalloplasty.”
Now, FTM phalloplasties [...]


Crossposted to TransGroupBlog and AlbertaTrans.org.  Original draft appeared at The Bilerico Project.
I do not take credit for the safecall concept — it has been around for decades, and I first encountered it through the leather community (a version of it has also been present for a long time among escorts).  But I do consider this [...]


(originally posted to The Bilerico Project)
The most important things I ever learned about dating and relationships came from the leather community.  So it bothers me when I see people and lifestyles trashed as “disgusting” or “a tarnish on our community.”  Or when the medical community misuses fetish to further stigmatize and marginalize us under the [...]